Sentosa
Spent a day in Sentosa today and had some really chilling time there..:) Glad that i went..was feelin damn sian the whole of yday..:( Got a hangover from the previous nite of ButterFactory..gosh..was totally wasted…too much alcohol in my body! ehhe..:P and the losing of my mobile phone..Gosh that totally sucks! Everyone whos messaging me, i would ask..who’s that? Now that would totally suck..Hey if you msg me and i ask you “Who you are?” please do not think that i have forgotten abt you..it merely meant that i have lost my phone and my contacts..
Hmm..was just spending the whole of today talkin to a gf of mine..We were just discussin on how guys these days treat relationships so lightly and stuff..She was just commenting that these days, people are just worried about commitment and hence the latter of player around etc..or probably its jus our luck to meet them..Some guys are just not what they seem like…They can tell you one thing and when they turn around, they are actually someone else..or they just behave in a way that you dont normally see them behaving in front of you..
So how do you actually defining liking someone? Does falling in love at first sight works these days? Apparently not i guess..It would b more of a crush rather than liking? Or is liking and crush the same?hmmm..*ponders* I guess crush will be like for a really short time and when you meet someone new, your crush just disappears and you kinda like the new person that you meet? As for like, i guess its for a longer time than crush..and even when you meet someone new, your feelings will probably float to the new person for a while..but then it somehow returns back to the one that you like..But i guess these days, there are more crushes than likes..So, these days, would be more like “hey I like you..” or “hey i am havin a crush on you and i’m not sure whether next week i will still have the crush on you?” I guess the trick these days will be to keep the person interested in you and not let his/her feelings wonder to someone else..But the question now is..”How do you keep the person interested in you???”
Two of us were just sharing today on the kind of guys that we like and how we like our men to be dressed..We do have differing opinions on how we like our men to be dressed but one thing that both of us agreed on was..how nice it will b to find someone to share the same likes as you..hobbies..enjoy doing the same things that you do..But firstly finding that someone will be the first obstacle that you have to get thru..How do you find someone who share what you like doing? How do you find someone who like to go to Sentosa with you to get some sun? How do you find someone to go club with you? How do you find someone who can dance with you? How do you..I guess the How questions are endless..
I do agree with her when she mentioned about self-discipline rather than being controlled..We, the female species these days, like our own freedom and we do not like to be told of what not to do and what to do..rather we prefer to exercise some self-discipline on ourselves..Telling us not to club as and when you like it is wrong..rather we would prefer not to club this week on our own discretion..and not bcos you told us so..
