What is wrong with my mum?
Sometime earlier this week, i had a fight with my mum about the most ridiculous thing..First of all, it is about $, what else is new? Second, she is complainin abt my dear B..coz of my previous relationship with my ex which lasted for a whole of 6 years and we kinda broke up without her knowing the reason, i know that she is not happy..coz she somehow seems to think that he was the one that i was gettin married to and when things dinch work out the way she wanted, she was jus devasted..
Though i did know that she kept in touch with him secretly and him, playing mind games with her, knowing how well he would have knwn her for so long..so that kinda sucks..so secretly i know that both of my parents are making comparison of B with my ex..and somehow i know that they feel that B pales in comparison to my ex..but hey, every individual is different and my mum just doesnt seem to get that fact rite..and every individual has different upbringing so how do you xpect everyone to b the same? I still rem when i first dated my ex, she was also complainin abt him..saying that he having only O levels cert is unsuitable for me..and he coming from a broken family is also not suitable for me..but hey, she accepted him after some time..
Somehow she doesnt get the fact that every individual is different so she jolly well can stop comparing two of them! If they are the same, why the hell do i change a bf? was just thinking to myself that no matter which guy i would to get as my bf, she will still compare..so that doesnt make a difference..
WAs so pissed over the incident so msg my cousin to complain and she said that she would talk to my mum abt the comparison and somehow she went to tell her mum and her mum called mine just now and they had a tallk..and somehow the whole incident was brought up again..*sighs* And i hate it..it is at this very moment that i feel like moving out to stay on my own so as to avoid my mum! She is so super annoying seriously..why cant she just move on and get past the fact that me and my ex are no longer together so she can forget abt contacting him..i wondered wat the hell is she thinking abt?
And seriously i am the one who is gettin married and not her..so even if my B is really not as good as my ex (which seriously is not the case ), i am the one who made the decision and choice and i would bear the consequences for my life..so why the hell she want to step in and bother? My cuz said that i should only bring the guy whom am going to get married home and not all the guys i date..but hey, i thought i was goin to marry my ex but who knows that things do not turn out the way we want to..and if i do not bring the guy whom am dating, then my mum would worry and wonder who the hell am i seeing..so aint that a dilemna for me? Bring home also wrong,dont bring home also wrong..so tell me what you want?
Am really hoping one day both my parents would wake up to the idea that my ex and my B are very different individuals so “GROW UP and GET PAST THAT IDEA!”
