Maddy: Life of a Beach Bum & Bikini Babe Wannabe!

Day: Friday
Date: 25th January 2008
Venue: O-Bar, Mohamed Sultan
Time: 21 00 - Early Morning

The nite where it all happened..ahah..:P Well went drinking with my colleagues on Friday..was meant to be a farewell for one of my colleagues who would be leaving us on CNY eve for something better..Hmm..supposed to be a sad event since it is a farewell but boy did all of us have fun that nite! ahah..:P Drinks were free flow since my colleague, Desmond, has bought us drinks..:) Bot us lots of drinks actually and shots as well! ahah..had two rounds of shots and mixtures of drinks and boy was everyone drunk after that..ahah..:P

Not too sure what happened coz i was definitely high..kinda remembered i took lots of pics, talked to some guys and conned a cup of burbon coke from some guys..well, felt bad about that actually but hey i didnt even get those guys’ names..hee hee..

A really fun bunch of guys! ahah..even though most of them are so much older than me but boy can they party..ahah..:P Although they all went back way before me and one of my female colleagues but hey they were a fun bunch..ahah..but they were totally knocked out at abt 1 plus..ahha..and i didnt even know they left..;P ahha..And one of the bigger guys in my company was actually knocked out by lil drinks! Gosh we were so disappointed with his ‘performance’ …ahah..hey he can do better than that lor with his size..ahaha..but dinch expect he was knocked out way before the ladies, which is me and two other girls..coz we had the 2 rounds of shots and some other drinks..buut he..sighs..no comments..haha..:P i wasnt drunk..just really really high..however i still manage to get home sober..ahha..:P And somemore wake up early next morning to go do my hair! haha..

Definitely gonna miss Desmond who will be gone coz he is just so fun to hang around with..always full of jokes and suaning me with my neighbour..ahha..:P But am happy for him that he has found something better. A sad but fun farewell party for my dear neighbour who is seated diagonally opposite me..Someone who thought i was a temp staff on my 2nd week of work..and who never fails to team up with my neighbour to suan me every morning! Gonna miss all that…:(

Good luck Desmond!

On 17 Jan 07, at around 2.43am, someone sent me this msg,

“I hate to admit it but…I miss you…”

Seriously i did not see this msg until the next morning coz was already way in bed when this msg came in..so you must b thinking, it must b him..ha! Nopes, it is not him but rather some guy that i used to know…Kinda weird to receive this from him coz i have yet to hear from him for weeks coz of some unhappy things that we had a fight with and after which, we just kinda stopped contacting each other..

So you can imagine how shocked and surprised i was when i saw the msg..First thought that came to my mind was that my fren had been clubbing..must b having his mambo nite in Zouk and probably drunk..well, what do you expect when that msg comes in early Thursday morning and my fren is a clubber! ahha..:P

So i msged him when i woke up and asked him whether he was drunk etc and he said he wasnt..Just told me that he dinch even go clubbing..was at some live range when he msged me..so was like how come you msged..well, to keep things short, all he told me was that he suddenly thought of me so he msged me..and whether i missed him etc..

Seriously i think he is just bored..ahah..coz dinch quite reply back to my msgs when i asked him abt stuff..weird..oh well..guys are jus so weird..;P ahha..

But hey it caught me off-guarded and i also dinch think much of it as well coz seriously i think he was just being bored..ahahaha..:P But well, that coming from him was indeed a surprise…

Officially, it has been 2 mths since i started on my new job and it had been great so far..except the occasional scandals and gossips and teasing from my colleagues..ahah..buut so far it had really been great..Working in a big company is really different from a small one..things are more defined even though i get to do some lil jobs here and there (coz was being bullied by some of the ladies therre..) Oh well, i am so used to doing everything on my own in my previous job..multi-tasking i should say? ahah..then i sorta do everything on my own..so even though genna bullied by the aunties there, am still pretty cool with it lor..:)

But one thing which i must really talk and be happy about is my new boss..he is so nice! A really nice guy man..he is so different from the guy who was working in my previous job..back in my previous job, that guy was of a rather high position but boy was he temperamental and always throw his temper around when he was in bad mood..and gosh, hasnt he ever wonder why ppl so bo chup and show him attitude? i guess not..ahah..:p

RIght now, my boss is just so nice..i feel so comfortable working with him..and an understanding boss indeed..There were a few times when i have to excuse myself for certain thing and he just gave me the permssion too and not wanting me to pay back the time..saying that over here, results are more important than returning the time..Guess its just very different culture and environment..

Was jus having a discussion with him this afternoon about the website that i have done for my company..and were jus joking abt some of the pics and two of us were just laughing hysterically..and also talked about my taxi habit..ahah..was jus so comfortable talking to him and when i was laughing hysterically, it just suddenly dawned on me that this is my boss but discussion with him was just so fun and comfortable..just like working with J and N back in my old workplace..hee hee..:)

Am just so happy working with him…but job rotation is very common in my new company and i wondered when will be the day he will leave for the head office…Pretty worried abt that actually..but right now am just happy to be working with him and having such a nice boss!

My gosh..yday was like my first encounter with the grapevine in my new company! ahah..it has been 2 mths and i have heard lotsa rumors etc but today was the ultimate! ahha..:p and i was involved as well! *faints*

I have this guy colleague in my office who is like Mr Mocca, the guy from TV..mainly coz he is pretty muscular but really short though..ahah..same height as me actually..so he is known as Mr Mocca..He works in Canada for 2 years so pretty much very potato though he is Chinese..;P So behavior is pretty ang moh and speaks and talks like damn loud lor..and seriously he changes girlfren like his clothes like that..too many gfs to recall or remember..or thats what i heard..and very ABC indeed..

A=Aligator
B=Buaya
C=Crocodile

Coz every new female colleague in the office, he will make a move and hey i think he tried it on me..and gosh i dont quite like such flirty guys..everyone was like wondering how come he dinch make a move on me but hey i do feel that he did like get very close to me etc..and probably he can sense that i siam him..ahah..just bcos i dont quite like his bhavior etc..very flirty indeed..so he had a scandal with lotsa girls, except one who is from Accounts and hav since leave the company..probably coz she made known to everyone..ahah..

So here goes..i heard SHE asked HIM out..i heard HE asked HER out..so blah blah blah and the story goes on..and guess wat? today he actually went lunch with 3 of my colleagues, where one of them was the I heard that HE asked HER out..so he confronted her lor..goodness, you cant imagine the tenseness in the car..ahah..and this stupid guy..well, we were all just teasing and joking with him over the past week over the incident and he cant take it! ahha..:P

And so defensive somemore..i was like aiyah ,just leave it lah..moreover you dont have a good reputation in company..this is wat i think of coz..;P He huh..tease him also cannot and so defensive..so sensitive..seriously the more you try to clear things up, the worse it will become..ahha..:P So i am involved as well since i was part of the teasing team..ahha..:P

Actually i dont even know why he blows up the matter..its just so small issue wat..so wats the big deal? and if you are not interested in her, then u can bo chap her wat..haha..so idoitic! and boy neva underestimates the power of the grapevine..

Have decided to move out of the grapevine and not b part of it! ahha ;P

Happy New Year everyone! hee hee..well, its the 7th day of the new year so my wishes must have come late..oh well, been so lazy to post anything on my blog over the past week since the new year started..my new year started off quite quiet though..dinch have the big bash as i thought i would have coz all my frens were like spending the NYE quiet after a happening nite on Christmas Eve..hee hee..;P Had a gf who was in town after being married to the States so was just catchin up with her and some other gfs..:)

And spent last Sat tanning under the sun and enjoying some quiet time alone at the beach..thinking abt stuff and got myself totally burnt before the rain sets in much later! ahah..:p

Oh well, cant really remember who asked me abt my relationship but the question was..”Have you thought of what will happen after the grace period is up? What if he really does what you tell him, would you really take things as they were? Is that really what you want in life?” At that time, that really sets me thinking and pondering..Seriously i didnt think that further..probably in my mind, i have always been telling myself that he will never do anything during this grace period to make things beta for us or even me..so dinch even think so much…so when one of my gfs asked me that, i was taken aback by surprise..totally clueless of what i should do..is that really the life i want? Is that what i really choose to lead my life? Well, i havent quite think abt that really..Future? What does my future hold? Seriously i dont really know..always thought that i would have a wonderful future..(well, i used to have it till i totally blew it off..) Guess things aint really tt great for me..

Or like wat my gf said that i do have a choice to make my future better but i am the one who doesnt want to..Sighs..seriously i really dont know..@ times, i just wondered why i always end myself in dear shit and nothing else? Moving from one hole to another..that just seems to work for me all the time..or is that my life? Why cant my future just be there for me and i just walk into it..rather than having to make all the choices..Oh well..

But i still remember one sms sent to me by a really dear gf, “Wishing you all the best in love and luck for the new year..” hee hee..and something like lets not get ourselves hurt in the new year..ahah..how true is that and would that really works? I dont know..

So whats after the grace period, Maddy? Well, i do not have an answer to that at this moment..

My ad reads:

“Desperately Seeking For Someone To Hang Out Wif”

Period.