Irresponsibility
Irresponsible, that is all I can say of some peeps in this world. Some peeps just thought of short-term and not long-term. Just because they do not want to act irresponsibly at the beginning, they decided to take up the responsibility. But later in life, they realized that hey this is not what I want so decided to give up that huge responsibility and dumped it on someone else.
Seriously this issue is not only the consequence of one person but the other party as well. If right from the start, one person is against the whole idea and forces the other person to abide by it, then the problem would not have occurred at all. However, just because this particular individual decided to stand by and allow things to happen the way it is, the whole situation has become like this.
And right now, that individual has decided to throw her principle of being responsible and starts to act irresponsible, then the other individual now suffers.
So is this the fault of one or two individuals? Seriously I felt that it is the fault of both individuals. Firstly if there’s persistence in one of the individuals to say no, then this situation would never have happened. But well, that individual decided not to and stands by the side and see what happens next. Secondly if that particular individual wants to act responsible right from the start, then jolly well stick to your stupid principle of being responsible till the end and not halfway through, decides to retreat from her principle and made the other individual suffer. But seriously this is a decision of both individuals right from the start, so you cant say who is wrong and who is right.
Right now, it is time for that poor individual who has so far abandon responsibility to grow up and undertake that responsibility from now onwards. Even though that individual felt exasperated and felt like life has been sealed with no return, that individual does not have a choice but to understand that this is a decision that was made before and to understand that every decision/action comes with a consequence and this IS the consequence even though very much that individual does not want to face it or accept it.
It is disheartening to know that there are such peeps outta there. People who simply do not have the brains to think before they do something and in the end, resulting in hurt and harm on others. Why do such peeps exist? Dunch they learn from their frens or peeps around them or issues around them or even TV? This is really called sensibility and street-smart. And older doesn’t mean that you are wiser. For some individuals, it could just meant STUPIDITY.
I am in no position to judge but seriously if I ever have the chance, I would just tell that person off - “Stop pretending to be responsible where in the end, you have decided to be irresponsible. What is that split second of responsibility worth? By taking up that initial responsibility, you have not only ruined your own life but also the person whom you so-called hold dear to. And right now, you have decided to abandon that so-called responsibility which you have undertaken at the beginning, you are not being responsible at all. So stop pretending like you are all mighty with that responsibility that you have decided to undertake coz you are just such a fake and thanks for ruining everyone’s life.”
And to that person who now has to grow up – “I know you dunch have much choice but to face the issue now but seriously if right from the beginning, where you have decided to put your foot down and say NO, such things would never have happened. Your life would be so much better now and you can do the things you want. So when that thing happened, you have decided to stand by one side and allow that individual to do things that individual’s way without forcing to do it your way or explain the seriousness of actions. So now you have to bear that consequence of your action. Right now, who can you blame? No one I would say. It is your decision at that point in time and now you have to bear the consequence. You probably hate it now but simply there is nothing that you can do except to grow up and sacrifice all that you wanted for your future, just for standing-by and doing nothing. And it is this bo-chap attitude of yours that got you into this mess today. Or probably no one taught you the correct way to think at that time which resulted you in ignoring the all that would come. And hence this is what happened. Probably you have thought to yourself, How I wish I met this someone new (whom you hold very much dear in your life) earlier so that these shit would have never happened to me. Oh well, I guess the timing is all wrong. Well, I do hope you grow up and undertake the responsibility with all your heart. And if you ever meet someone new again, please do take the decency to tell the person new that you have all these baggages in your life and not wait till like sometime later when things are getting serious to tell her coz by then, things are different. Please do not hurt another individual again. Or rather or not, just stop meeting someone new.”
